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How do you stop eating to comfort yourself? It seems like food is the only thing that makes me feel better. I also now associate eating with activities I do in the late evening.
That’s an important question. It sounds like food has been helping you cope, so let’s figure out how and why, and what you might be able to use for comfort instead of food.
The goal isn’t to suddenly stop comforting yourself with food. A more realistic goal is to expand your comfort toolbox so food isn’t the *only* option.
Here are a few strategies that can help.
- Separate “I need comfort” from “I need food.” Before you eat for comfort, pause to ask, “What do I need right now?” It may be fuel, relief, distraction, reward, connection, rest, or something else. Simply identifying why you’re eating can help build awareness and move you closer to change.
- Pair food with comfort instead of taking it away all at once. Instead of saying, “I can’t eat,” (which can be stressful in itself), try, “I can eat, but I’ll also do … … to comfort myself.” These might include wrapping yourself in a blanket, watching a familiar movie, texting a friend, or going outside for fresh air. Your brain can slowly learn that comfort can come from multiple sources, not just food.
- Gradually change evening habits. Evening eating may not be so much about hunger as about habit or routine. Try adjusting your environment before you start eating. For example, while watching television, keep your hands busy with doodling, stretching, knitting, or stretching. Fidget toys can help, too. Sit somewhere else to change your habit, or start a “night signal” routine that doesn’t involve food, like turning on a certain type of music.
How do I lower cortisol? My biggest stress is my family so not likely that I can just walk away from them
That’s such a real and relatable question. The stressor is your family and you can’t just opt out! But that’s okay, because you don’t have to eliminate stress to lower cortisol. Just interrupt the stress for a minute or two!
Here are some approaches.
- Create micro-escapes like going into another room and breathing in and out deeply 5 times, splashing cold water on your face, or going outdoors and noticing three sounds, three colors, and three sensations.
- Have a “recovery” ritual after you feel stress, like sitting with a cup of tea for 5 minutes when you’re alone or stretching for 5 minutes after a heated interaction.
- Think of yourself as an “observer” instead of an “absorber” when people are getting to you. Keep it from being personal by creating an emotional boundary that you get to control.
How do you roast chickpeas? Can chickpeas go in an airfryer?
Preheat the oven to 400°F and spray a cookie sheet or baking pan.
Rinse and drain canned chickpeas (garbanzo beans) and pat them as dry as possible with a clean towel.
Toss them with oil and seasoning like salt, black pepper, paprika, garlic powder, onion powder, chili powder, cumin, oregano, or anything you like. Use 1 tablespoon of olive oil per can of garbanzo beans.
Spread them on the prepared pan in a single layer and bake for 25–35 minutes, shaking or stirring halfway through. Pull them when they’re golden and crisp.
You can make them in an air fryer at 390°F for about 12–15 minutes.