Find More Meaning and Discover a Lighter You This Holiday Season

December 3, 2025
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The Holiday Season Can Be Wonderful - And Challenging!

People look forward to holiday food, traditions, gifts, parties, and events. The general atmosphere, seeing friends and family, and volunteering are more common things people enjoy.

Holidays can be challenging. Here are some common challenges. 

Extra Responsibilities Health Challenges
Social obligations, family visits Less time for cooking, exercising, sleeping, and managing stress
Hosting/cooking/cleaning More parties and gatherings with high-calorie foods and beverages
Traveling Pressure to drink alcohol
Gift shopping and wrapping Cookies, fudge, caramel corn, and other holiday treats
Holiday decorations Winter weather
Child care
Often, days off work are few!

What Might You Hope to Get from the Holiday Season?

Identify what makes your holidays “successful.” That way, you can work to achieve success.

The Four Pillars What Matters to You? (Examples)
Connection Family time, longer conversations with friends, out-of-town visitors
Tradition Baking, decorating, music, viewing lights
Recharge Sleeping in, reading, quiet evenings, saying "no"
Giving Volunteering, making a small gift, thoughtful gestures

It’s also a good time to overcome challenges to increase confidence in these areas.

Focus Area Affirmation for a Lighter Season
Self-Care “I can make decisions to feel strong and be healthy”
Self-Worth “My needs are important and worthy of attention”
Empowerment “I can make good decisions for my health and wellbeing”
Priorities “I can give time and effort to meaningful people and causes”

Set Realistic Goals to Support Physical and Mental Health

Goals at this time of year might be different than goals 

Area Goal to Release Goal to Embrace
Scheduling Saying yes to everything and everyone Prioritizing people and events that are important to you
Weight Rapid weight loss Healthier choices when possible (Focus on Maintenance)
Fitness Increasing intensity or duration Maintaining fitness, adding small bouts of activity (Movement Snacks)
Perfection Skipping all treats, giving perfect gifts, doing everything yourself, cooking from scratch Choosing and enjoying a select few treats, asking for help, forgiving yourself

Subtract to Add: Less Can Be More!

  • Doing too much lead to less for yourself and others by increasing stress and reducing joy. Here are reasons to be selective. 
  • Appreciation for holiday food, events, and atmosphere
  • Ability to be present and mindful in the moment
  • Allow for rest and recovery to start the new year fresh

What might you skip this year for a happier, healthier season?

Consider… Benefit…
Mystery person gift exchange More fun, less money, less time and stress from gift shopping
Only going to parties you have time, energy, and desire for Save time and energy for loved ones and important people in your life
Purchasing dishes and asking guests to contribute instead of cooking everything yourself Time, effort, better mood, less tired and stressed
Decorating, shopping, and volunteering with family or friends More quality time while having more fun getting the same things done

Try Helpful Thoughts to Maintain Healthy Habits

“What can I do now to make the new year easier?

  • Reduce or break up sitting time
  • Pack up leftovers
  • Have coffee instead of a latte

“What can I do to feel good now?”

  • Exercise
  • Choose a higher-fiber carb
  • Drink water
  • Go to another room for quiet time

“What can I plan to make sure I stay on track?”

  • A dish at an upcoming party
  • Meet for a walk instead of a meal
  • Add a salad and a bowl of soup

And Now…The Food!

How do you keep holiday food in check during December?

A holiday meal can have about 2,000 calories!

Calories in a Holiday Meal
Food Calories
Mixed nuts, 1 oz. 200
Crackers, deli meat, cheese, 1 oz. each 300
Dinner roll with butter 200
Ham or turkey, 4 oz. 200
Mashed potatoes, yams, stuffing, and green bean casserole, 1/2 cup each 500
Pumpkin pie, 1 slice 300
Eggnog, 1 glass 300
Total 2,000

That’s before adding second helpings, wine, more desserts, dressings, gravy, sauces, salad, soup…

Holiday Meal: Always plan to have a healthy option

If you’re hosting: plan to include healthy options at each course

If you’re a guest:

  • Ask the host ahead of time
  • Check the restaurant menu
  • Phone the restaurant or caterer
  • Look for healthy menu options
  • Bring something healthy. You can leave it in the car if you don’t need it, and eat it later

Holiday Meals and Events: Starters

Look for vegetables, fruit, and proteins.

  • Vegetable or fruit skewers
  • A salad with dressing and add-ins on the side
  • Deviled eggs made with yogurt instead of mayo
  • Lightly seasoned popcorn
  • Ice water

Holiday Meals and Events: Main Course

Look for or bring plain vegetables and lean proteins

  • Salad with dressing and toppings on the side
  • Roasted vegetables, such as green beans, brussels sprouts, or asparagus
  • Roasted potatoes or sweet potatoes
  • Skinless roast turkey or grilled fish or chicken
  • Hard-boiled eggs or grilled shrimp

Holiday Meals and Events: Dessert

Look for or bring fresh fruit and small servings

  • Seasonal fruit: basket, salad, or whole fruit
  • Pears, clementines, persimmons, pineapple
  • Plain or cocoa dusted nuts
  • Whipped topping - Add 1-2 tablespoons to fruit to make dessert more indulgent

Holiday Meals and Events: Beverages

Look for water and non-alcoholic beverages

  • Water/ice water
  • Hot tea or unsweetened iced tea
  • Black coffee
  • Herbal apple or other tea bags, and cinnamon sticks for spiced tea

Keep Holiday Meals in Perspective

While a traditional holiday meal might have 2000 calories, eating leftovers and other holiday foods for weeks can add many more!

Remember to sit at the table when you snack to stay aware!

Make Leftovers Work for You!

How can you make sure leftovers support your health goals?

  • Give them away if you’re a host. Politely refuse them if you’re a guest.
  • Offer to others at restaurants
  • Wrap them well and freeze them
  • Give them to a neighbor, friends, or needy people in the community

When you have no other choice, throw them away.

Balance Holiday Cheer with Everyday Health

Special occasions can fit in. Enjoy them! Hour to hour and day to day, make healthy choices. They add up!

Which occasions are the ones you’ll choose as “special?”

There Are Lots Of Ways To Say, “No, Thanks!”

  • Simple: “No, thank you”
  • A fact: “That food doesn’t agree with me”
  • Not debatable: “I’m not hungry now”
  • Blame an authority: “My doctor said I can’t eat that”
  • A statement: “I’m not drinking tonight”

Practice saying “No, thanks!” so you’re used to it.

After This Webinar/Next Steps

  • Identify 3 things that you want to get from the holiday season
  • Name 3 healthy choices you can make consistently this year
  • Identify 3 things you can simplify or skip this year

Health Coach Q & A

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Food Calories
Leftovers
1/2 cheesecake 2000
1/2 pumpkin pie 1200
1/2 green bean casserole 800
1/2 sweet potato casserole 800
Gifts and Similar Foods
1/2 popcorn tin (butter, caramel, cheese) 1000
1/2 loaf pumpkin bread 1200
10 Christmas cookies 1000
1/2 lb chocolate truffles 1800
Beverages
2 bottles of wine 1600
Non-alcoholic eggnog 1600
Total 13000