Mindfulness is: “paying attention to your experience… (even if it’s different from someone else’s)
…in the present moment… (without worrying the past or future)
…with curiosity… (seeking information, not zoning out)
…without judgment.” (It’s not good or bad…it just…IS)
Benefits of Listening to Your Body
Feel Better, Healthily
For example, what if you feel tired?
If you’re out of tune with your body, you may automatically opt for energy-dense foods (e.g., pizza, mac and cheese), or skip a workout.
If you’re in tune with your body, you may notice that you need more sleep or you’re dehydrated or need some activity. You may go to bed earlier, take a walk, or drink water
Choices Are Easier
For example, “I want an iced mocha with whipped cream.”
When you’re disconnected, what you want can conflict with what you think you should do. You may feel that you should not have an iced mocha, but you want one. If you have one, you may feel guilty. If you don’t have one, you may feel deprived. That’s exhausting!
When you’re tuned into your body, what you want is more likely to align with what your body needs. You may notice that you’re thirsty, and that you want something cold. “Ice water will satisfy me and energize me.” There’s no conflict!
Sustainable Changes
Two Approaches to Well-being
Willpower & Control
Mindfulness & Compassion
Willpower and Rules
Mindfulness and Listening
External pressure
Internal desire
Guilt and self-judgment
Acceptance and self-compassion
“Should”
“Want to”
Control and restraint
Thoughtful actions for desired results
Burnout and backslide
Choices without conflict
Delayed responses to body
Early detection and response
Consider a Lot of Factors When Interpreting Your Body’s Signals!
Cues and Influences
Category
Examples
External Cues
Temperature, travel, sight, smell
Friends, colleagues, advertisements
Internal Cues
What you feel (e.g., hunger, thirst, fatigue, energy, pain)
Science and Physiology
Medications, medical conditions
Guidelines, doctor recommendations
Habits
Cleaning your plate, bedtime snack
TV at night
Steps of Mindful Check-ins
Listen
All your senses
Notice with curiosity
Observe
Accept
Be honest and open
No judgement
Be present
Respond
Choose the most supportive action thoughtfully
Action may be unnecessary
Example of Using Your Senses (Listening During a Mindful Check-in)
Sensory Checklist
Sense
Observations
What do you see?
Walls, cars, trees, ants, sky, kids
What do you hear?
Traffic, train, birds, fan, voices, music
What do you feel?
Your seat, neck pain, a breeze, sweat
What do you smell?
Coffee, dinner, bleach, soap, neutral
What do you taste?
Lunch, beverage, toothpaste, nothing
Example of Using Your Senses While Eating Mindfully